Memory Makers
As you know, it can be a challenge to live with someone who is having trouble remembering things. Here are some positive steps you can take to help your loved one hold on to the names for people and objects that were once familiar:
1. Create a memory book. List important names, dates, faces, places, and favorite things. Use photographs and words in the book to help your loved one name his or her favorite food or find the word for his or her grandchild's favorite toy.
2. Create reminder signs and directions to hang around the house. For example: "Turn off lights" or "Steps of the morning routine…"
3. Build on memories. Work with the positive moments and memories that your loved one does remember. Watch movies and listen to music from his or her young adulthood. Check out the section called Share the Memories for more ideas.
While you are helping your loved one remember things, don't forget to put up some reminders for yourself also.
1. Post a list of reasons why your loved one is acting the way he or she is. This will help you remember that it's the symptoms of the disease—not the person you love—that are causing certain behaviors.
2. Hang a sign of comfort. Use reminder phrases like "This is not my fault" or "My wife has changed and she does not mean what she is saying."
3. Keep calming reminders in every room. Hang a copy of a poem, a quote, the serenity prayer, or anything that calms and reassures you.
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