Over Breakfast
Every Tuesday, like clockwork, long-time friends Tom and James meet for breakfast and to shoot the breeze. They talk about sports, the weather, their grandkids, and the news of the day. Today they are talking about a recent car accident:
Tom: Did you hear about that woman who lost control of her car and drove into the front window of her own house?
James: Sure did. Good thing she wasn't going too fast--so nobody was hurt. I read she stepped on the gas instead of the brake. She was what—85 or 86?
Tom: Not even that old. Late seventies like us.
James: Now that I'm 79 my kids think I should stop driving. I don't see why I should have to, though. I never black out or get confused about where I'm going. I can see if I had a medical problem—
Tom: But your eyes aren't like they used to be. That's why you don't drive at night any more, right?
James: Right Tom, but I can still see well enough to get around during the day. I stay off the freeways and heavy traffic areas now. And when Maggie and I need to travel long distances, we take the train.
Still, I like being able to drive to the store, the library, and here to catch up with you once a week. I'd sure hate to give up that freedom to get around.
Tom: I know what you mean. But I've read that the older we get, well—we get into more accidents on the road. Frankly, I am a little concerned about my own driving. That's why I asked you to pick me up this morning. I'm shaky about being on the road, James. I had a few close calls last week. And you know what, pal—I noticed you getting mighty close to the center line this morning.
James: You should have said something! I didn't even notice. Maybe you're right. It might be time for both of us to start thinking about how we can get around and stay active without depending on our cars.
Tom: Our city buses have a lot of runs. Look--there's a stop right outside. On one hand, I hate to give up the freedom. But what if I crossed the line and hit someone?
James: Yep—I think our driving days may be coming to an end.
Tom: As much as I hate to admit it--for safety reasons I know I need to give up the driver's seat. Well, on the upside, think of how much money I'll save one of these days on gas and insurance.
James: I like that you always see a positive side to everything. Hey—I'll pick up today's tab if you leave the tip.
It isn't easy to stop driving, but if you think you may put yourself and others at risk when you get behind the wheel, it may be the only choice.
- Next: Staying on the Road
